Private Coaching for Men Who Can’t Fall Apart in Public
Off-the-record coaching for executives and public figures. Anonymous. Unjudged. Effective.
By an Executive, for Executives
I’ve been where you are, I can walk you out of it. You’re not alone.
You’re successful, but secretly feel the cracks forming. You’re struggling to keep up the illusion. Alcohol and/or drugs started off as fun and social. Then they became your escape, your solution to help you deal with the pressure of work and home. Your family and friends don’t understand. The conflicts in your relationships are increasing. Your circle is getting smaller. You’ve drawn a line in the sand many times. If X, then I’ll stop. If Y, then I’ll get help. The line keeps moving and the dependency increases. The stress continues escalating. You need help. You’re scared.
The risk of being seen seeking help, is greater than continuing on the path you’re on. You need rock solid confidentiality. Anonymity. I’ve been where you are. Today, I’m sober, happily married (to the person who hated me and wanted divorce) and thriving in life. I’m not unique. This is available for you as well.
I’m not a therapist or doctor. I’m your Invisible Edge. No one will know we’ve connected. There are no records, documents or recordings. We meet on your terms. In person or virtual. This decision will change your life, IF you’re willing to get honest.
I built The Invisible Edge for men like us—high-achieving, highly visible, and silently struggling. No diagnosis. No records. Just the truth and a path forward.
If any of these are true, you’re in the right place
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Your mind is racing. Alcohol and/or drugs is the only way to slow it down.
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The marriage has become distant. You want to fix it, but keep stumbling.
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Anger is the new norm. Mostly at home, but starting to show up outside as well.
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You’re a “success” (publicly), but falling a part (privately).
How We Work
1: Anonymity
Book under initials or a pseudonym. No bios. No files.
2: HOW this works
Honesty, Openmind, Willingness. If you can’t be honest, save your money, this won’t work.
3: Results
No more bandaids or temporary wins. A design for living that works. IF you work it.
Secrets are cancer of the soul. Complete anonymity unlocks the fear of humiliation or embarrassment. The silent suffering is over, if you want it to be.
Confidentiality Isn’t a Feature. It’s the Foundation.
Book with initials or a pseudonym
Payment via Stripe — we never see or store card details
No recordings, no paper trail
Private link sent 1 hour before your session
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About Alex
I’ve been with my wife for 25+ years. I had lots of money from a young age. Owned restaurants, night clubs and fancy cars and jewellery. I got in with the wrong crowd, did stupid things, became addicted to alcohol and drugs and lost everything—marriage, money, purpose. I got sober, rebuilt, and learned how men like us actually change. Since then, I’ve helped executives and public figures get their lives back—quietly, effectively, and without losing their edge.
“Real strength is asking for help”
What Clients Say (Anonymously)
“I was in a $hit storm. I had stage 4 cancer, my marriage was a train wreck. All I did was talk to Alex everyday. Somehow, I got sober and beat the cancer. I’m no longer married, but we have a good relationship today and have 2 beautiful children. Very grateful”.
~ EVP, Sales
“My son, has been in multiple treatment facilities, within a month he was always using again. Alex came to our home, spent time with him. I don’t know what they discussed, but today Michael is sober and doing well. We are very grateful to Alex”.
~ Parent
Strength in Silence — Notes
Private thoughts on recovery, marriage, and power—written for men who lead.
Book Privately
Use your initials or a pseudonym. Full payment required to confirm. We never see your card details.
Settings to enable inside Acuity:
Require payment in full (Stripe)
Optional intake form with: “What’s going on?” and “Outcome that would make this worthwhile?” (no required personal fields)
Confirmation email text: “No recordings. Secure link sent 1 hour prior.”
Frequently Asked Questions
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Yes—use initials or a pseudonym.
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No. Stripe processes payments; we never see card details.
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No. It’s private coaching by a former exec who’s been through it.
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24-hour policy; reschedule link in your confirmation email.
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This practice is for men only.